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Cake day: August 15th, 2023

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  • To elaborate, is there a specific cause of the disability (autism would be an example) and does it affect specific aspects of your life (reading or writing or both, etc…)?

    Asking about the “type” is more contextual. Admittedly, it may not appear to make sense at first glance. (Example: https://neurolaunch.com/intellectual-disability-types/ ; Other sites may use “type” but give different examples or conditions.)

    Edit: FWIW, my ADHD (and I also suspect autism) is the cause of my own intellectual disabilities. I am not considered “stupid” by any means, but I do have a wide range of quirks: Focus, task completion, organization, planning, hyperactivity, memory issues and past substance abuse being among them.





  • I grew up in a tiny rural mountain town in North Carolina. There was maybe two black families in that entire county at the time and one that went to my highschool. One could say that I was sheltered from the rest of the world entirely.

    Back then we didn’t go out of our way to be racist, we just were. It’s how we grew up and it’s what people knew. To us our attitude wasn’t racist, it was normal.

    Fast forward the clock to when I was about 17, me and my mother moved to Greensboro, NC where I would speculate that white people are still a minority. I got a job at a nearby McDonald’s, (Holden/Highpoint Rd, if you were curious…) where me and another girl were the only white people who worked there.

    Now, by that time, I had already started to realize that my thought patterns and assumptions were just blatantly incorrect. One night, I was working night shift with the white girl and during a smoke break, I explained my confusion, explained where I grew up and asked for advice on what I should do and how I should approach other people. We talked for a while over a few cigarettes, but the core of the story was that people are just people, no matter how they look.

    I am not embarrassed about my past and I am proud of mind-shift and personal growth I was willing to take at the time, especially being only 17. People can develop and change, especially if they are poisoned by ignorance and are willing to see another perspective.

    Today, people can still have wildly bizarre opinions and sometimes, they are unaware that those opinions can cause behaviors that are hateful and even dangerous in some cases. In some cases, all it takes is a slight push to tumble down a nasty tower of stereotypes and logical fallacies.

    So, I acknowledge that my past behavior was wrong, I took the appropriate steps to correct my behavior and I am a better person because of it. If needed, I would have been willing to make true and honest amends whenever possible.

    Wallowing in any sin of my past doesn’t do anyone any good.