I was very afraid, so much I didn’t consider (and maybe you neither) that it doesn’t have to be an all-in event. You can come out person by person, or if there really is nobody you trust, reach out to other queer people, organizations or online communities. They will always be responsible with not outing you, because we’ve all been through this. Exchange with other queer people helped me a lot with accepting myself and just the joy of being among people who “get me”.

I know the fear of losing friends and I don’t know you, so it might be warranted, but hiding your true self to not lose friends is also a terrible pain you’re afflicting to yourself.

This is so heartbreaking

A win in my book!

That was a nice read, thanks for sharing!

It’s the best! Very happy for you OP <3

When you use AI features, the IDE needs to send your requests and code to the LLM provider. In addition to the prompts you type, the IDE may send additional details, such as pieces of your code, file types, frameworks used, and any other information that may be necessary for providing context to the LLM.

Doesn’t sound like it gives you much transparency or control over the data it sends no matter which feature you use. Sadly not usable at my job then.