My family doctor asked what my wife thought before scheduling me in, as did the doctors of my friends who’ve had them. My doctor wasn’t too aggressive about it but the doctors of some of my friends were.

For people that are single it shouldn’t be an issue but I feel like it’s a good a back check on people who are married (or common law with kids)… You shouldn’t be making decisions like that on your own if you’re in a dedicated relationship and if the two if you can’t come to a common consensus the whole relationship needs some major work (or to end).